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"I want to see you"

I want you to be seen, to be heard, to be valued.

I want you to know I see your love as love without question. 

I see your ability, not your disability.

I see your race, culture or faith as intrinsically you and part of what we are celebrating, in the way that you want to celebrate it.

You will not see lots of descriptions, words and phrases here that may not actually represent how you identify, how you feel, or how you want others to see you. For me, and this may be contentious, they feel become boxes in which to 'file people', and too many of us have been in one 'box' or another at some stage in life. In our communications, when we meet, and in your ceremony, it will be your language and your voice that is heard.

I want your ceremony to be a safe and joyous space, for you and all of your valued guests.

​For me, it is personal.

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Deborah 

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